It is true that We are all a bit stereotype
When it comes to accepting the truth.
Nothing hurts us more than the truth.
Everyone have there own sets of problems goals inspiration based on the circumstances that we face or the environment that we live in.
This can be quite possible that you may have more problems as compared to others around you or the other way around,these are part and parcels of life.
But many a times while trying to escape from the harsh realities or problems we indulge in such things which are of no use in our life as these activities takes our mind to a different zone different dimension far away from your actual world .Beleive me In this 21st century world there are hell lot of things to distract you.
We are trying to avoid “spending time” with ourselves.And Rather than sorting our day to today issues we occupy ourselves endlessly with Facebook, television,games, gambling, drugs and alcohol, and so on.
We like all these activities because these all helps us to make a wall between our problems and ourself by occupying the attention factors of our mind but you can’t contain all the problems within yourself and be happy without sorting out the problems and finding the solutions.
You can’t always run away from reality by trying to avoid it. By someway or the another you have to face-off from reality. In this attempt to escape we try to forget about the present and create a totally different fantasy world in our mind .It comes in many forms, some rather subtle, and prevents us from doing what we need to do to improve the circumstances of our real lives and enjoy the untrue, imaginary moments.
Dont just try to dodge your problems just try to sort them out whether its related to your relationship career just try to sort the issues within you on the basis of priorities and put an end to all those sufferings . you can do this by just trying to stay away from all these useless kind of activities whose usefulness in your life of negligible benefit.
This all can be done by finding that “me time” for urself apart from all the hectic schedule of your life whatever it might be you can make that extra 30-40 minutes everyday whether in the morning or whatever time you like .
Actually these small moments connects us to ourself, knowing ourself is the biggest task . we are in a mirage that we know ourself but some us dont know what we can truly acheive if we focus all our attention in pursuing a single and the utmost important object. Many times we are just unaware of our true potential.
So plan out your way to be away from such escapes.
#peace
True words!!! We all have become automated. We need to get in touch with ourselves to become more human.
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We must find the small moments that exist around us and take full advantage of them. Drink coffee more deeply, sip tea with all our whole body. Breathe the air fully and appreciate what is right here, now. How can you enjoy the future if you can’t live in the present.
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Yes we should…… By the way nice interpretation @stonetribal
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Well said! 🙂
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Unawareness of self is indeed a very dangerous situation and also the saddest one of all the griefs in your life… I totally agree with ur views, man !
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Thanks.
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Very true Aaditya. I know what you exactly said because I am making a transition in that phase. Trust me, its the toughest phase in my life that made me realize harsh truth and I have accepted myself. I am not ashamed but working toward shaping myself to be a better human, specially to my 9 year old son. Thank you…for the good write up.
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Great advice well said! Good idea to live in the moment and we do need to ‘switch off’ on a regular basis to stay connected with ourselves.
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I agree with every word I see in this post. It is simply stunning ! 🙂
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Thankyou😄
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So perfectly true..
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It’s really motivating….Amazing actually😊
Just one question…what about those who spend time with themselves but still can’t think a way out of their problems??
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Solitude……. Hmmm i think perspective is the key here if u think u are in a hell lot of a mess just try and make ur inner you to be your strength your perfect partner with whom u can cruze through any ocean of hurdles… Thatsit
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Sometimes the external forces or the perspective with which a person is seeing things, shake you inner self completely turning it upside down.
But yes as a matter of fact, if you take your time and be with yourself,you can loosen the pressure the external forces have put on you. I love solitude.
Thanks for your reply.
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I can’t help but notice this infection in our society, I am straight blessed to be amused by the taboo. The moment I actually discovered the bizzare parade of truths that makes this place reality, movies and games never measured up the same.
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MUCH NEEDED ! Thanks 🙂
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Glad u like it
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Oh Merlin, this .. this is what I can relate to completely! I’m still trying to find out an identity for myself and I can totally use this in life. Thanks for sharing this amazing post! 🙂
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Glad that you like it !
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