WE ARE HERE FOR A LIMITED TIME .

It’s Midnight 2nd of July and it’s raining heavily I would’ve chosen to go out as it’s Sunday but I preferred Books as Rainy day and books make perfect combination, after reading a beautiful thriller fiction of Dan Brown, I have nothing in my mind  what to do next so I did what our generation usually do checked my social media profile, got bored there too so I thought, I should watch something on Youtube, something funny maybe, but as I sometimes watch motivational videos so there was a recommended video titled Life lessons from 100 years olds. I am providing you the link watch it after reading the blog post. (  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9AThycGCakk )

I opened it as I saw an old man full of wrinkles sitting on his vintage sofa, I thought “Aha it looks like he certainly has something beautiful to tell”, and I watched the video it was inspirational. But while watching it I observed how people look when they get old- full of wrinkles, Bald with a few white hair and suddenly I was bombarded with thoughts as -how will I look once i get old?

 How would it feels to be old?

 but the question which I thought worth contemplating is 

“Will I be happy in that last moment of my life ?” 

while listening to the rhythm of rain drops tapping the window gently, I got more and more submerged into the thought.

Currently, I am 21 so a thought came, ” ahh it’s not my age to think about all these things I have a full season of youthfulness in front of me” But do we have much time. Then I thought, I do have some beautiful memories of my childhood and Teen age but it certainly doesn’t account for complete 20 years . Looking back it feels like its just 2-3 weeks when I woke up and got ready for school but no its more then 3 years now. How amazing is this riddle of time, at this current moment we will be the youngest we’ll ever be. Everyone in this planet knows this but somehow we get so much trapped in our everyday life that we fail to appreciate the time that we have. we all are surrounded by petty concerns no matter where you are , what you are. we always try to be in our comfort zone scared of stepping out from it. 

Currently I don’t have the answers, I just have Question and too many of them,as to how will I make my life beautiful, full of memorable moments. 

The answer to all these questions I will write on 2nd July 2077 (Terms and condition applied ! chuckles!) .But the thing I will be doing from now on is to stop postponing my happiness to my future and start  enjoying the beauty and bliss of every single day no matter how big or small the happiness.

 We all have some aim, ambition but we get so much engulfed in the struggle to reach the finish line that we fail to enjoy the journey. So just find a sheet of paper take out your pen and make a bucket list of things you truly want to do apart from just running towards the end.  Have a great journey ahead,make every moment count.  Adiós  ok now I’m going out  in my garden to enjoy the Rain .

  🙂

Do all those thing that you always wanted to do and just admire the journey .

“We only get to be in our bodies for a limited time, why not celebrate the journey instead of merely riding it out until it’s over?”

 

 

 

 

Fibonnaci: The Golden Spiral

 

In mathematics  the Fibonnaci numbers are the numbers in the following integer sequence , called the Fibonnaci sequence, and characterized by the fact that every number after the first two is the sum of the two preceding two

0,1,1,2,3,5,8,13,21……..and so on

Its actually a growth equation. our whole world follows a single magical formula which shows how every objects growth take place. Look around you, whether you are in your office right now or room or park or at Starbucks. Every things you see around you and not even the things even your growth too is defined by the Fibonacci’s series.

You don’t believe just type “Fibonacci in real life” in google images and you will believe it for sure.

 You see how everything is connected in this world and i beleive this spiral is connected with all the happenings and struggles that we face.

Growth is Voluntary we all think we have to design, our growth but all we have to do is just act .

You noticing something here??

The sequence 0 1 1 2 3 5 8 13 21 44…. every level switch, every change is a result of what came before .You see ….all you need to grow, to go to next level, to acheive something.you already have those things, you already been through it .All the failure that you saw is trying to convert you in some way. Happenings in your life  are trying to mould you in something good, something beautiful. 

Don’t worry about the dots if its not connecting right now but its actually leading you to some great path and eventually everything will connect, what you have to do right now is to keep all those negative s**t out of your head and do what you think is best act to do at the point of time

. Make every Day count, Don’t let any of Bad thoughts to come in within you ,its your mind never let your mind control you and wait till every dot connect Everything that’s happening is happening for a reason  Stay Strong and fight harder

you never know what beautiful art this universe is preparing for you……

#hope_for_the_best “ALWAYS”

 

 

 

Fresh Start.!

New year’s Day. A fresh start.A new chapter in life waiting to be written. New questions to be asked,embraced, and loved. Answers to be discovered and then lived in this transformative year of delight and self discovery. Today carve out a quiet interlude for yourself in which to dream, pen in hand. Only dream give birth to change.

First of all a very Happy New year to all whosoever is reading this post. I started this blogging site in mid 2016 and I am glad I joined this WordPress community there’s an array of good bloggers among different genres. I feel very happy while saying this- ” In Nov-Dec 2016 This blog site touched the mark of more than 500 views across different countries .Thank-you guys, thank you so much for the love you showed to the blogs via great comments.”
As we all know 1st January a date where people make many different resolutions for themselves. We are full of excitements on this day to make the year a good and a happy one. I just have one resolution this year to rule out every negatively from thought and action and infuse every bit of positivity in place of it.

You too have 365 days from now to make this year a success make resolutions, there can be new surprises, happy moments as well as heartsheds this year too as they are part and parcels of life but remember you are not alone we are with you.Make this year a beautiful one, a memorable one, try new things and never be afraid of making mistake.

So dream big and work harder because….

 

I am taking #post_a_week challenge where I will try to post a blog every week. I urge you too to take this challenge and make this writers community better while trying to excel in your genre.

Cheers.

ESCAPE

It is true that We are all a bit stereotype

When it comes to accepting the truth.
Nothing hurts us more than the truth.

 Everyone have there own sets of problems goals inspiration based on the circumstances that we face or the environment that we live in.

This can be quite possible that you may have more problems as compared to others around you or the other way around,these are part and parcels of life. 

But many a times while trying to escape from the harsh realities or problems  we indulge in such things which are of no use in our life as these activities takes our mind to a different zone different dimension far away from your actual world .Beleive me In this 21st century world there are hell lot of things to distract you.

 We are trying to avoid “spending time” with ourselves.And  Rather than sorting our day to today issues  we occupy ourselves endlessly with Facebook, television,games, gambling, drugs and alcohol, and so on. 

We like all these activities because these all helps us to make a wall between our problems and ourself by occupying the attention factors of our mind but you can’t contain all the problems within yourself and be happy without sorting out the problems and finding the solutions.

You can’t always run away from reality by trying to avoid it. By someway or the another you have to face-off from reality. In this attempt to escape we try to forget about the present and create a totally different fantasy world in our mind .It comes in many forms, some rather subtle, and prevents us from doing what we need to do to improve the circumstances of our real lives and enjoy the untrue, imaginary moments.

Dont just try to dodge your problems just try to sort them out whether its related to your relationship career just try to sort the issues within you on the basis of priorities and put an end to all those sufferings . you can do this by just trying to stay away from all these useless kind of activities whose usefulness in your life of negligible benefit. 

This all can be done by finding that “me time” for urself apart from all the hectic schedule of your life whatever it might be you can make that extra 30-40 minutes everyday whether in the morning or whatever time you like .

Actually these small moments  connects us to ourself, knowing ourself is the biggest task . we are in a mirage that we know ourself but some us dont know what we can truly acheive if we focus all our attention in pursuing a single and the utmost important object. Many times we are just unaware of our true potential.

So plan out your way to be away from such escapes.

#peace

Blind man & The Cripple

I recently read a story with  which is featured in the book named courage the art of living dangerously. Story has a strong message and it’s worth reading.

​In a remote village in the outskirts of Punjab there lived 2 sworn enemies.  One chap was blind and the other was a cripple.  They just could not get along.  No matter what one did, it would upset the other and visa versa.  For years this battle raged on and the animosity between them grew fierce and caustic.
As fate would have it though, during one very hot and dry summer a terrible fire broke out in the village and began consuming everything in its path.  The villagers began to flee in fear as there was no stopping the inferno.  In the panic, the blind man and the cripple were forgotten about and left to fend for themselves.  They now had a big problem.  The blind man did not know which way to go in order to escape the fire, and the cripple, who could see the path to safety, could take no action regarding it.  So both were stuck.
Luckily for them, the desire to live was greater than their hatred for each other, so they decided to work together in order to save their lives.  The blind man put the cripple on his shoulders, who then directed him on which way to go in order to escape.  Thus, working as a team, they were successful and even ended up becoming friends.
Who is the blind man and who is the cripple?  The blind man is your mind and the cripple is your heart.  What is the fire?  The fire is your suffering.  The mind is the instrument through which you can move, act — but it is blind, in that it does not know which way to go.  It endlessly debates, weighing pros and cons, wobbling between what will be gained and what will be lost if certain action was to be taken.  It cannot see how to escape the suffering.  The heart, on the other hand, can see clearly the way out, but does not have any means to act.  In order to act, it needs the mind.  So they need each other.  But, more importantly the heart needs to sit on top of the mind, as the cripple sat on the shoulders of the blind man.  With the heart leading the way, the mind becomes intelligent.  Give the heart its precedence and wisdom will then emerge and guide you safely out of your suffering.

Everybody is a genius

 

“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.”

— Albert Einstein

Resilience

Resilience is that  quality that allows some people to be knocked down by life and come back stronger than ever. Rather than letting failure overcome them resilient person prepare for the bounceback at the right time

 

Being resilient does not mean that a person doesn’t experience difficulty or distress. Emotional pain and sadness are common in people who have suffered major adversity or trauma in their lives. In fact, the road to resilience is likely to involve considerable emotional distress.

Once we face failure, embracing it honestly and fully, its true gifts, which are subtleand not easily quantifiable, can emerge.
It is true that

Failure is brutal, ugly, and unpleasant. Whenever it happens, it is profoundly unsettling because it shatters your certainties; it makes you question your place in the world, your worthiness.
But there are positive side of failure as well:–

People who fail repeatedly develop persistence in the face of difficulties. Failing an exam when you were 18 was catastrophic at the time, but it caused you to take a detour, which allowed you to have some experiences without which you cannot conceive of yourself today. The fabric of our lives is always made of such failures,”

How to develop Resilience within one self 

1. Develop a healthy routine

– sound sleep

– healthy eating

All these things help to elevate stress

2. Liberate yourself from all your sufferings .(thinking how? Read my first post)

3. Avoid Comparisons .

4. Avoid procrastination while working.

5. Let go all those hard feelings about yourself.

6. Persue tasks in hand with complete serenity and calmness.

7. Develop positive attitude towards life.

 

There’s no such thing as ruining your life. Life’s a pretty resilient thing, it turns out.

 

Introvert..Hell Yeah!!

 

It has long been observed that some people are expressive, outgoing and comfortable in interacting with their surroundings – while others are reserved, quiet and more comfortable alone.
It is true at times when extroverts utilize there energies for connecting with others, introverts utilize that for knowing themselves better.Reasons why I think introverts are better

1. They Know What They Want From Life:

There’s something to be said about someone who is secure in who they are.  Introverts know what they like and don’t like.  They are deeply connected with their values and know what they want to get out of life.  Such strong self confidence makes one more attractive, sophisticated, and desirable.

2. Less Annoying:

It is usually seen that introverts are reserved and less annoying than extroverts they usually hang around with a few people who they know are best suited considering there own personality.

3. They are Hard workers: 

introverts have time to assess and connect with themself better and thrive to achieve what they think are of  utmost importance for them .They work hard without showing off about the amount of hard work they put to achieve something and that’s why they are called The secret hard-workers.

So there is nothing bad if you are an introvert because some of the qualities that you possess are those which many people just desire to have those. There is nothing to feel bad about

And yes…..

True Liberation

At times when our self confidence gets bogged down those are the times of hardships and struggles. It’s seems impossible to stand up again no matter how hard the previous blow is. Encouragement, Motivation, Words of wisdom everything seems useless

That’s how I used to feel a month back. And that’s how I had felt for quite a while before it all changed.

No, I didn’t become stronger. I found out that I don’t need to be. 

I realised it recently that there are times in life in which what you just can do is to do your part with complete commitment  and to let go all the fears and pressures.    

One of the most difficult challenges we encounter as humans is letting go.

Letting go of relationships, the past, our beliefs, the status quo, our fears, our hopes and dreams, our youth, and our sense of control.

 It is true that life is dynamic and dynamism is often related to pain and discomfort but when you accept the things the way they are. It helps us to tackle the situation in which we are in in a better way                                                

  I know it’s hard to simply let go but once you do that you will understand how extricate it is.

It is rightly said that                                       

Suffering is not holding you. You are holding suffering. When you become good at the art of letting sufferings go, then you’ll come to realize how unnecessary it was for you to drag those burdens around with you. You’ll see that no one else other than you was responsible. The truth is that existence wants your life to become a festival